must behave
cant be tacky
must behave
cant be tacky

As the wife of someone in a band I want the band to succeed. I want them to get gigs. I want their music to spread. I want these gigs to be well attended. This means gigs to be well advertised.

But here is the kicker.
- I am not part of the band.
- I don't book gigs.
- I don't gather advertising materials.

All in all I have little control on any of this. Being a control freak this is hard for me. Please don't get me wrong. I do not want to be involved in any of the decision making process for the band but I do want things to flow smoothly. I have done this with derby so many times I know the ins and outs of merchandising and advertising. But this is not my baby. If you know me in real life you know it is hard for me not to swoop in and take over on a project I understand. This is the must behave part.

Sounds like I will be the merch girl. That's cool.

I will be the one who cheers the loudest at the gigs. Please join me so I don't stick out like a sore thumb. Please help me to not be tacky by being the loudest one there or Melanie and I being the only ones cheering.

Mark your calenders now.

August 28. The Marquee Tulsa. Time TBA. Cover TBA. Details forthcoming.



Its ok, I am with the band.