I my case - and that of many other women like my self who wear a bra above the size of 32B. When it comes to our 'assetts', please, just leave us alone. It is fine to discuss with us how hard it is to find a shirt that fits properly (particularly if you are female). Or to tell us we look nice.

I dress in a manner that I feel is not obscene. I rarely wear clothing to draw attention to my 'assetts'. As a matter of fact I often refuse to wear things that do show off said 'assetts'. But no matter what I wear - be it a polo, t-shirt, or sweatshirt I am the center of unwanted attention.

If there is a unintentional brush of your body against mine this is not an invitation for you to go for a second brush, or to tell me how nice my said 'assetts' look (I use assetts because to hear most men say anything else makes me nauseous). I have done nothing to earn the figure I have. It is a simple genetic crap shoot - perhaps in your view I got lucky. To me it feels more like a loss these days. This unasked for attention makes me very uncomfortable and feel violated. If I respond to you with a comment like "thanks my husband thinks so." This is your not so subtle hint to get away from me. I am not a stripper making money off your attention. I am not here for your amusement. You likely have just ruined my day if you do not - and then I spent the next several days trying to decide if I should have slapped you or just punched you in the throat. In short it makes me feel victimized.

I do not like playing the victim and the next time this happens - no warnings will be issued - I think I may just slap you.